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Reaching Out Changing Life

There are many things in life that will catch you eye, but only a few will catch your heart……pursue those.

Our greatest power is the power to choose. We can decide where we are, what we do, and what we think. No one can take the power to choose away from us. It is ours alone. We can do what we want to do. We can be who we want to be.

Tuesday, September 02, 2025

Outdistance the Competition

 "Learn from others. Strive to be a perfectionist. Believe in over-compensation. Never follow the line of least resistance. Practice the correct way, not the easy way. These attitudes overcome the opposition and bring victory."

To outdistance your competition you must learn more and better ways to out-serve them. You do this by consistently doing the right thing, in the right way, at the right time, and always in the best interest of other people - those you serve. Out-serve the competition by demonstrating a genuine interest in your clients, their problems, their concerns and their aspirations.

To gain the reputation of being a master sales professional you must always be a master servant. Study the master doctors of the world, the master lawyers and master accountants. They are master servants and this is true of every relationship of life. You can increase your power to serve to the satisfaction and profit of both the buyer and you.

Here are three relatively simple strategies that will give you an edge on the competition in your relationships with prospects and clients.

  • Dress, speak, act and write appropriately. If suits and ties are preferred in your marketplace, wear them. Speak clearly and stick to the point. Be sharp. Even if you're tired try to look bright and energetic. You won't win points if prospects perceive you as lazy, or someone who stayed out too late.

  • Never miss an opportunity to do someone a favor. Chances are it will be returned. But don't keep score - and don't use the favor as "blackmail" to get your prospect to do one for you.

  • Know as much as possible about your field of business. Broad knowledge about your products and services will lift you head and shoulders above your competitors in the eyes of your prospects, and bring you the success you seek.

  • Outdistance your competition by out-serving them. You will become your own best recommendation.

Sunday, August 03, 2025

The Most Important Word

 "The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes." 

Of the many words in all the languages of the world, what word would you say is the most important when it comes to success? According to the experts, it's the word "attitude." The dictionary defines the word "attitude" as a noun meaning "position, disposition, or manner with regard to a person or thing."

Our thoughts shape our attitude. Here are some philosophies for keeping your thinking correct:

  • It can be done! Make this your motto.
  • Use perpetual optimism as a force multiplier.
  • Be careful what you choose; you may get it.
  • Don't let adverse facts stand in the way of a good decision.
  • Check out the small things.
  • Don't take counsel of your fears. Remain calm.
  • Share credit.
  • Avoid having your ego so close to your position that when your position falls, your ego goes with it.
  • Sometimes being responsible means people will be mad at you.
  • It isn't as bad as you think. It will look better in the morning.
  • Remember, we become what we think about most of the time. Our thoughts shape our attitude, which is key to our success.


Wednesday, July 02, 2025

Make More and Better Sales!

 "Your prospect has a free choice. You get your maximum share of the market's potential by creatively supplying what the prospect wants and needs." 

Nothing can hold back an idea whose time has come. You can give your prospects ownership of the idea of buying what you are trying to sell them by personalizing your recommendations. Remember that you will succeed in this only to the degree that you can speak the prospect's language.

Use a planned presentation and make your proposals distinctive. The following self-motivators will help you make more sales to quality prospects:

  • Hard planning makes easy selling.
  • Successful sales professionals pinch pennies for their prospects. Help prospects figure out how the premium can be paid.
  • Simplify your suggestions to gain understanding.
  • We learn, and sales are made, through the use of repetition . . . repetition . . . repetition.
  • You know your business, so speak as someone who has authority.
  • When a pause or interruption occurs, it's always wise to summarize.
  • The story method is the most effective means of helping prospects understand a point you wish to make or relate to a situation you are trying to describe. So build an inventory of stories and examples and practice telling them. Good storytellers are made, not born.